Lots of times you hear about how “when life give you lemons, make lemonade”.
However, to me that just focuses on the sour parts of life. What about the bitter?
(Yeah, I bet you thought I was going to say sweet. Gotcha!)
Years ago when traveling I saw what I considered to be the coolest machine ever. They were at walk-up food restaurants everywhere – and they squeezed oranges into fresh juice as the customer waitied.
This sounded wonderful to me. Sweet, fresh orange juice for $4 a tiny glass (or some other outrageous sum).
Then, I shelled out for the juice and was startled by the flavor.
Sweet? Not much.
Bitter? Oh, yeah. Lots and lots of bitter.
Bitter has it’s purpose. However, when life gives you OJ it can turn you into a bitch if you don’t watch yourself.
I’ve got my share of bitter going on these days. My life isn’t where I thought it would be when I was dreaming of the future in high school.
Heck – last month I thought THIS month would be different too. Keeping my head in a positive place is turning into a full-time job.
I’m fighting against turning into a full-on bitch who focuses on the regrets of life and relationships both past and present. I really don’t want to be that person.
I guess awareness is the first step toward changing what you don’t like.
I think I’m there.
Operation “Not Orange Juice” has commenced.
Here’s to “more sweet and less bitter”.